Music is essential for setting the mood of your wedding day! From the beginning of the prelude to the last dance of the evening, music fills our senses and our hearts to create memories that last a lifetime. Selecting the music for your special day, especially live music, is an important and enjoyable task when planning your wedding. Discuss with your musicians what you wish to experience musically on this day – the songs styles and artists you like (or dislike), special songs for the two of you and favorite songs for your parents.
Creating an environment is an important component of music performance. Live Musicians choose tempo, key and style to set the tone at any given moment. For example, anticipating the arrival of the bridal entrance, the Prelude music (music played prior to the ceremony while your guests are arriving) may be calming and sedate. The atmosphere is filled with beautiful music and the tone is set for the entrance of the wedding party. While awaiting your arrival, your guests’ senses are enlivened with the sound of music and the sight of the live musician’s performance. A professional musician is well studied in many styles and is very adept at choosing the perfect song with the perfect tempo to set the anticipatory mood at this moment.
When at last the bridal party is set to enter, the music changes and the excitement is audible with murmurs among the guests. Your professional performers are tuned in and can musically alert your guests with a change of song (style, key, tempo) that the moment that they have been waiting for is now about to begin! When choosing the song for your bridal party the most important question to ask is whether or not the song provides a steady and uncomplicated pulse to walk to. From Classical to Rock there are so many great song choices, though remember that your grandparents and parents (and maybe the officiant and groom) may also be walking down the aisle. And if you have a large bridal party you may want to choose two songs – one for your parents and grandparents, and the other for your bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girls and ring bearer.
When choosing several songs for the bridal party your musician can suggest songs that have a similar theme or the same artist/composer to allow the music to flow seamlessly. Performing at a lovely Beatles themed wedding ceremony, we chose Here Comes The Sun for the very young flower girl and even younger ring bearer for their walk down the aisle. The effect of this song choice was so very perceptible complimenting the playfulness and beauty of the children.
Now for the moment that everyone has been waiting for! Your live musician heralds your entrance musically with your processional music that includes a resounding and resonant introduction signaling to all that you are ready! A change of key and a slightly quicker tempo is important to lift the listener’s perception to a higher level of anticipation. Your choice of music is matched to the moment. Make your choice of song one that you will want to remember! And, your choice of recessional song is just as important as this is the song your guests walk away with as your ceremony comes to a close. A powerful change of style, key and a brighter tempo will set the tone for the party to come. Remember to choose a song that is celebratory and, most of all, fun!
Lisa Pressman ©2009 lisa@opusfromus.com Lisa Pressman Ensemble: Extraordinary Music For Extraordinary Events! http://www.opusfromus.com/events











